The Dark Queens

  I’ve started gorging on food, To full and beyond. Eat and stuff, eat and stuff. Chicken and bread and cheese and peanut butter. Seeking to fill the void.   But not just the void, the Other.   Going back to the refrigerator again and again. Devouring seconds and thirds. Shoveling mouthfuls of rice while

Diving Into the Wave

  Several friends have likened the process of grieving to surfing.  I understand the analogy.  At times the waters are relatively calm and we can ride along.  At other times, we are buffeted by tsunamis that threaten to drag us under.  Yesterday, I discovered a third way – diving into the wave. For as long

The Energy of Things

The Energy of Things This piece has been a while coming as I’ve looked about our home deciding what on earth to do with all of Mike’s things. “There is no rush, take your time.  Things have energy and you will know when it is time.”  This was the wisdom of Ziri Rideaux, the fabulous